How To Pick Up Women
May 30, 2010 | Filed Under Dating | No CommentsMany a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, “Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy.”
Next, he chugged down some liquid courage and strutted up to her. But within a blink of an eye, she shot him down.
He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.
Maybe you’ve been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I’d imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that – I’d reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.
If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.
Here’s the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone – and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they’ll still think you’re interested.
This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading…
Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who’s minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he’s a fighter, it’s too late – he’s already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he’s got a shot at success).
Like other men, I’m also a fish – but a Parana jacked up on steroids. The moment they think they’ve hooked me in, I cast my pole and tempt them with irresistible bait.
They chomp down and – hot diggity – I’ve got them on my hook and I’m reeling them in.
Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.
And then I’ll bark, “Ow… you hurt me.”
Ninety-seven percent of the time, women will stick their hand out to touch me and apologize with some variant of, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”
I’ll quip back with, “Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
Once most guys find a woman attractive – usually within the first few seconds of meeting her – they start thinking of ways to get her approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her.
She’s got them on her emotional hook (and she’s well aware of it.) Any effort on their part to win her over is a bad sign she’s reeled them in even closer.
With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.
In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given time. Two people can’t simultaneously chase each other.
With few exception excluded, you want to set the frame that you’re the Prize and the woman is the suitor trying to win you over.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned dating expert, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over a decade. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
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