Dating Guide: Starting Online Dating And Growing The Relationship
November 25, 2009 | Filed Under Online Dating | No CommentsOnline dating is easy and fun but you need to remember to think safety first. Here are a few safety tips.
Computer Security
You need to protect your computer before you start visiting dating sites and getting lots of email from dating prospects. I recommend a firewall and an anti-virus program. There are two free programs I recommend that will do the trick. The free firewall from Zone Alarm and the free anti-virus program from AVG.
Personal Safety
Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service. How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place. Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.
Remember, safety first. Protect your computer and yourself with the right tools and knowledge and you will have a fun experience.
Now that I have covered safety, I want to talk about how you grow an online relationship. Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.
1. Make time. Does your online date try to contact you on a regular basis? You need to do the same. Ignoring emails and chats is abusive. You need to treat each other with respect. If you see that respect is not there, you need to end the relationship.
2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So do not rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.
3. Respect each others privacy. Do not share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.
4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline – if you are exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, and small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).
Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.
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