November 30, 2009 | Filed Under Online Dating, dating advice | No Comments
There is so much information about dating and internet dating out there. Everyone is an expert. Have you noticed though most of the advice is all doom and gloom. How to avoid this disaster, how to recognise that scam. It can’t be that hard, all you are doing after all is trying to meet someone.
As such, in this article I am going to try and give you some internet dating tips that make things easy again. After all, it should be fun, not scary or confusing. So here are my top 3 top internet dating tips:
Firstly, think about what you are doing. Most people jump straight into any old dating site, meet a million people and never really get anywhere as these people don’t have anything relevant to offer. So be a little different here and think about who you want to date and the experiences you want to share. Write it down if you like, to keep you on the straight and narrow.
Many people are full of advice about what you want, what type of people are right for you and what experiences are ok to have. The problem is that these people’s opinions more reflect what is right for them, not what is right for you. So if you listen to them rather than yourself, you are starting your dating process by looking for a date and experience that is suitable for someone else.
Listen to yourself, and be true to yourself. You’ll be ok. Specific dates and relationships may not work, but this is your journey to have, they are your mistakes and successes to have, they are your experiences to learn from, laugh and cry about.
Tip 2. Having noted the type of person and experience you want, only go to dating sites which cater for those specifics. Ignore the general dating sites that attract every man and his dog, only join niche ones which attract the people you are looking for. That is, use the dating site itself to qualify your potential dates.
General dating sites can be very hit and miss. You may end up spending all your time filtering through inappropriate emails and therefore have none left to date the people you like. So just use the niche sites. Some examples include: Asian dating sites, if eastern culture is important to you. Religious dating sites (Ie. Christian or Jewish) if morality in a partner is important. Adult dating sites if you are looking for a fun time, as opposed to a long time. There are all manner of niche sites, you’ll be amazed at their variety.
Tip 3. Put safety first in all cases. Remember you do not know a person until you’ve spent time getting to know them. Email/Chat/Webcam just doe not cut it. When you meet someone for the first time, treat it like a blind date. Ie. Do it in a public place and have friends ready to “rescue” you.
Dating has a number of stages, online dating adds a few extra stages. Each is a natural progression of “opening up” as trust is built. It starts with emails. Once trust is built, telephone numbers can be exchanged. Then when trust is built, dates in public places. Then, as more trust is built, private time together. There is no standard time scale for running through these progressions, its however fast the couple in the situation want it to be. If for any reason though, trust has not been built at one of the stages, do not progress to the next level of intimacy until it does. How can you ever feel safe if the trust doesn’t exit?
Once you have met someone in real life, you really should reset your expectations of them to ZERO. Pretend you never contacted them on the internet and start dating them in exactly the same way you would date someone you met in society proper.
I hope that helps. Keep it simple, have fun and by following your instincts, have a safe dating experience to success.
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November 27, 2009 | Filed Under Dating | No Comments
When you hear some experts say that it can take anything up to 25 to 30 attempts before you find someone you want to spend time with, it makes you aware how important it is to have a realistic dating attitude. This is not to say that you should consider the numbers game, either and check off those encounters one by one on your bedpost!
It is best not to put too much pressure on the situation when you set up a meeting with your chosen guy, as if you don’t maintain a realistic dating approach you would put way too much pressure on yourself. Have an open mind and be prepared to go with the flow.
Being single is not much fun at all and it is certainly time for you to settle down. Don’t bring this negative attitude with you when you go out, however as it will affect the way that you interact. Always remember that you’re looking for something special and don’t be tempted to settle for anything less as a compromise as you must be thinking long-term.
You may come across a guy who represents the most attractive man you have ever met, but remember that the process of realistic dating requires you to ask many questions and never assume anything. If you don’t, you will not adhere to the highest standards and go through that process of discovery. When the time is right, you gut will tell you what to do.
They say that you should be careful what you wish for and this should remind you to ask yourself some deep questions. Are you really ready for a long-term relationship if it comes around? This takes a lot of commitment, don’t forget.
Many girls choose to go out on a “rebound,” immediately after they have just gone through a disastrous breakup. If you are honest with yourself this is not likely to bring you a realistic dating result! You need to go through a process of healing, to a certain extent and understand that if you are carrying a lot of baggage around with you, the other guy will sense this right away.
You should view a first date as the chance to cement a solid friendship for a long time. If you just look at it this way then you will have a much more healthy approach. After all, every long-term marriage is based on the fact that they are both really good friends underneath it all.
To be realistic, dating partners should to a certain extent be pre-”vetted.” Is he a friend of a friend, or has he been recommended by someone who you trust? Do they share some of your common values or goals, as you may have met them at a sports club or similar venue?
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November 25, 2009 | Filed Under Online Dating | No Comments
Online dating is easy and fun but you need to remember to think safety first. Here are a few safety tips.
Computer Security
You need to protect your computer before you start visiting dating sites and getting lots of email from dating prospects. I recommend a firewall and an anti-virus program. There are two free programs I recommend that will do the trick. The free firewall from Zone Alarm and the free anti-virus program from AVG.
Personal Safety
Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service. How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place. Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.
Remember, safety first. Protect your computer and yourself with the right tools and knowledge and you will have a fun experience.
Now that I have covered safety, I want to talk about how you grow an online relationship. Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.
1. Make time. Does your online date try to contact you on a regular basis? You need to do the same. Ignoring emails and chats is abusive. You need to treat each other with respect. If you see that respect is not there, you need to end the relationship.
2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So do not rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.
3. Respect each others privacy. Do not share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.
4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline – if you are exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, and small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).
Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.
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November 23, 2009 | Filed Under Dating | No Comments
When you go on a date with someone there are specific things you should or should not do and specific ways you should behave. Of course you want the person to get to know you, so, first off, you oughtn’t try to be someone that you are not.
When you go out on a date you should look clean and dress nicely. This will show the other person, not only that you bother about your appearance, but that you also care about what they think about you. After all, If you don’t care about what the other person thinks, then you probably oughtn’t to be going out on a date with them in the first place, should you?
This pointer really depends on the person you are taking out. It applies more to a man dating a woman, obviously, but some women don’t like having doors opened for them either. You will have to play it by ear. I think that the best guidance I can give, is that you should remember to open the car doors and all doors for that matter (except the washroom door) for your date, unless you are told or you sense otherwise.
A lot of younger women might say they wouldn’t judge a man by his door-opening behavior, but I think it does form a beneficial part of the overall picture she will be building up of you. However, if the woman you are going out with is an obvious feminist, then you had better let her open the doors for herself – just let her get on with it or it might trouble her. She might also want to pay for her own meal, but that’s not a bad thing is it?
Make sure that you on time. Be there when you say you will be there to pick her up and be ready to pay for the entire date. It may not come to that, she may buy a drink or two, but you can’t rely on it, so slip a credit card in your wallet too. Better safe than sorry and you don’t want to have walk home., would you?
So, that brings us conveniently to the next point, which is, don’t take your date somewhere you cannot pay for because you never want to find yourself asking your date for money to cover the bill, unless you don’t aspire to see her again.
Another part of dating etiquette also relates to not making the other person feel as if they are at an interview. It is all too familiar for people on a date to ask too many questions because they want to get to know the other person quickly. However, how would you feel, if you were asked twenty questions between every course or drink? It is well-intentioned, but annoying. It is far better to have, say, five or six interesting, non-personal questions that you can discuss at more length.
If you push them too far, if you get too personal too quickly, you could scare them off. Just try to create a relaxing atmosphere by being considerate and yourself.
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November 21, 2009 | Filed Under Dating | No Comments
Our society has some very deep seated beliefs and may from time to time tell us that it is not okay to date older people. This situation is changing as the years pass though and we become much more accepting of different lifestyles as a whole. Regardless of what society thinks, however, the two people concerned should consider whether it is possible for them to be happy.
A generational gap will likely come into play if you date older people, and this may represent a significant challenge for you. Remember that if there is a big age gap, one person will have had a much different upcoming as compared to the other. Try and be aware of each little difference as it comes around and remember that it is a two-way street.
Do not be surprised if others are openly disapproving when you date older people and even talk behind your back. This can be very annoying, especially if these are so-called “friends.” Just remember that true friends will always stick by you whatever happens and will understand your position, you can ignore all the others.
When there is an age difference of many years between you and your new date, you’ll both have to devote time to understanding each other’s distinct goals and philosophies. One will be further ahead in the book of life and his plans will have matured and be based on his experiences. Conversely, you must understand you have yet to formulate a lot of your beliefs and plans based on your age and experiences.
For the younger girl, a little more maturity could be a good thing. It may be possible to have a steadier figure in your life and help you to take a more mature perspective. When it comes to date older people you may often be able to learn from their mistakes and avoid some of the pitfalls ahead.
Never be tempted to take the relationship to a more advanced level if you have not yet taken the time to fully understand each other. For people from different generations, this will take a lot of work and an open mind, to enable you both to build a strong foundation, which is vital. Avoid entering into a physical relationship like the plague, until you get to this point.
If you decide to date older people and only have this in your radar, then be prepared to be as flexible and open-minded as you can. Look for certain qualities in your prospect date. He must be able to understand your position equally as well and be receptive to what could represent a completely different culture.
While there is a time and place for talking about long-term plans and to explore where each of you sees yourself down the road, remember that you must be realistic from the very beginning. You don’t need to be talking about those ultimate plans from the get go, but be aware that if you see yourself as a mother in future, he may not want to have children. especially if he already has some of his own.
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November 19, 2009 | Filed Under Dating | No Comments
Are you trying to catch a cheating spouse? Well, all cheater tend to make mistakes. This means it will be easy for you to catch them since they will slip up and make mistakes eventually. Below is a list of 3 mistakes that they may make.
Mistake # 1 Change of Appearance
When a man or woman is cheating on their partner, they may feel energized. They will also have this desire to please their secret lover. Therefore, it is not abnormal to see them trying to dress up in order to look younger. Of course, this does not necessary mean your spouse is cheating on you. However, it is still a warning sign that you should take note of. After all, if these changes are quite unusual, there must be something going on in the mind of your spouse.
Mistake # 2 Making Themselves Unavailable
When a person suspects that her partner is having an affair, she will usually try to contact her husband in order to know where he is and what he is doing. This is usually done by calling him on the phone. A mistake that many cheaters made is that they don’t pick up the phone, which causes their spouse to be even more suspicious. This is a big mistake. Even if they are really busy, they should still pick up the phone. They can always come up with any reasonable excuse for not being able to reach home on time. At least if they pick up the phone, they are more likely to get away with their affairs longer.
Mistake # 3 Talking Too Much or Flaunting Affair
Sometimes, a cheater thinks he will never get caught, thinking that his wife is ignorant. Therefore, he no longer makes any real effort to conceal his affairs. Instead of meeting secretly with his lover, he may choose to meet in public instead. In fact, some cheaters may even boast about their affairs with their friends. What they do not realize is that people love to gossip. Initially, only one person may know about the affair. Eventually, a whole group of people will know about it. Finally, the wife will find out from all the gossips she hears.
What we mentioned above are just a few of the possible mistakes. If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you, you may want to look out for those mistakes.
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November 17, 2009 | Filed Under Online Dating | No Comments
Are you using the likes of Facebook and Myspace to meet hot women online? If not you are missing out on easy pickings!
By using the following online pick up artist tips, you will soon be able to meet as many girls as you want online!
1. Turn off your relationship status! Never make it easy for her by showing that you are single. She’ll probably ask soon enough anyway!
2. Never hug, kiss, or poke! You need to come across as being busy and busy people don’t waste their time with this! If you have any zombie or gangster applications installed, best delete these too!
3. Your primary photo is very important! Try and get one where you are with an extremely hot girl and she is loving being with you!
4. If you have cool hobbies such as surfing or snow boarding, then put some photos of these up to show that you are interesting and cool!
5. No matter how good your body is, never put up a photo of you posing half naked in front of the mirror! Trust me, it is a big turn off!
6. Check your profile for bad spellings! Never talk like a teenage girl sending a text message to her best mate. You need to look intelligent!
7. Look through your wall posts for anything boring like your mate inviting you round to watch Star Wars! Delete them all!
8. Try and collect wall posts from your preferably hot female friends inviting you out for a drink and a chat. This will make you look desirable above anything else!
9. Never fill in the section on the top that asks what you’re doing today! You’re obviously doing nothing if you do! Who reads it anyway? Certainly not online pick up artists!
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November 15, 2009 | Filed Under Dating | No Comments
Have you been desperate to find the right partner? Internet dating has proven to be one of the most effective approaches. It increases your chances to meet someone based on higher scores of similarity. All you have to do is fill out the forms and create your profile; potential partners can then pick depending on what they believe is best of their interests.
The perfect match is someone who might be on the other end of the computer. The benefits of computer dating is that people can select the right prospect before making the first big step. At the same time, you can also upload your information, thereby generating the best compatibility profile.
Because online dating connects many people, your chances of meeting the the perfect match increases. This is a chance for you to meet more people other than those in your social crowd. The best mate for you might just be somewhere on the net, waiting for you.
There are of course many advantages in web dating. You can meet people while at home or whenever you have connection to the internet. The entire point is that you do this at your own comfort. You can also do this at your own pace, at your own time. You take your time in choosing who will be the right one for you. Because of the possibilities presented by computer dating, anyone can meet more people and the chances of finally meeting someone increases.
The possibility of meeting more potential partners is endless because of more people signing up online to look for their the right one. The Internet has been a portal for many in order to explore possibilities other than those found in your own offline clique. Hence, the right one is determined through your personal profile.
The web connects you to many people that will likely work out well with your predisposition thereby giving you many more chances to meet the perfect mate for you. Because it expands your social horizons, you will see that the right partner does not necessarily have to come from the same crowds as you.
You can also meet people from different backgrounds. Internet dating does open more doors for you as this gives you a chance to meet people who are not typically in your own crowd. Hence, the world of dating is not limited.
The advantages of web dating therefore increases your chance of meeting your perfect match the right partner for you at your own pace. The access to more people increases, thereby going beyond your normal cliques. Hence, getting to know more people opens up more possibilities on courtship.
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November 10, 2009 | Filed Under Sex & Relationship Advice | No Comments
Deciding on a wedding gift can be tough. Every couple in history has been given a crock pot or two so you want your gift to be unique. You also want to give a gift that will be used and appreciated over the years. Here are a few wedding gift ideas to get you started.
12 Months of Spices
Spice up the happy couple’s new home with a year’s worth of spices. Buy 12 high quality spices; put them in a spice rack that will fit with the couple’s home dcor. On 12 recipe cards, share your favorite recipes with the couple, being sure to use each spice at least once. If you are up to it, share a few marriage tips on the back of each recipe card.
Honeymoon Coffee Table Book
A coffee table book full of beautiful photos and informative facts from the couples honeymoon location makes a great conversation piece and will keep the new honeymoon memories fresh in their minds. The couple will always have something that reminds them of their time together as a newly married couple and a well appreciated wedding gift that reminds them of you.
Newlywed Watercolor Painting
Find a company that will convert a photo of the newlyweds into a watercolor painting. All newly wedded couples love things for their home. The watercolor portrait can hang over a fireplace or on a wall in their bedroom. Every time they see it, it will remind them of their love for one another and the love and time you put into their gift.
Housekeeping for a Year
Newlyweds are busy people. With the new marriage, moving into with one another and all of life’s other duties it’s nice to be able to just relax together at the end of the day. Giving the couple free house keeping or free yard cleaning for the first year is always a great gift. It allows the new couple to concentrate on what is most important, each other.
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November 8, 2009 | Filed Under Dating | No Comments
Veering away from the usual awkward phrases and communication gaps, men can easily acquire the right traits to become a dating expert. Sadly, a lot of men fall victim to the humdrum of single life.
Instead of getting up and starting to search ways on how to become effective dating companions, they end up sulking in one corner and making more awful mistakes in getting to know women.
The advice offered here is a way to get you started on the best dating experiences of your life. Any man can get the girl if he has the right approach. These tips will help make you simply irresistible.
Read the tips and put them into practice.
1.The first thing that you need to do is to check yourself in the mirror. You’ve probably heard of all the sentimental gibberish about “beauty” not being a subject of physical appearance. In truth, it is and you have to accept that harsh fact. If you can’t make yourself look like a celebrity, at least you should try to look presentable for your date. Make sure that you smell good and are suitably dressed for the occasion.
2.Personality is mirrored by your manners. Whether you’re a person of meager means or someone who owns half of a countryside estate, your manners and conduct will speak for your true self. Women always favor a gentleman over a man who is rude and arrogant.
3. Be punctual as a sign of respect for your date’s efforts to also do the same on your first date. If you really want to set a good impression on your date, you can do so by showing her that you are committed the moment you show up at the exact time you agreed upon.
4.Always pay attention to what your date says. Remember that in order for a date to work out, you must be willing to share the conversation. It’s not always about you, and will never be especially if you intend to take dating into the next level. Be attentive and learn to share the spotlight.
5. The best way to make yourself irresistible, is to make your date feel irresistible. Let her know how attractive you find her. Compliment her on her good taste, her intelligence, her grace. Avoid any overtly sexual remarks, as they may make her uncomfortable and will certainly sound self serving on your part. If you pressure your date, you won’t see her again.
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